If you're reading this, chances are high that you've already spent some amount of time reading sex tips and tricks to use with your partner. Not to be corny, but: hi, you are your own best sex partner, which is why you landed here, on a list of ways to make your solo sex life the absolute best. Masturbation or masty time, if you will is a great way to unwind, treat yourself, learn more about your sexuality, and yes, improve your sex life , in general. It's maybe the most important sex you have no pressure. And yet, once you find a routine that works for you, it's far too easy to fall into a rut where each solo sesh is exactly the same.
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But, scrolling through Twitter, it seems the male population is still genuinely intrigued as to what masturbation means for a woman. We all masturbate! Realistically, whenever they feel like it. Some girls do it frequently and others not so much. MORE: The history of sex toys and masturbation in 10 fascinating facts. Why on Earth guys think we want to see them is beyond me.
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Fun fact: Masturbation can be awesome! In fact, a lot of teens do it, and enjoying it doesn't make you weird. So, why masturbate?
Porn isn't exactly famed for its realism. Women masturbate with legs splayed and backs arched, orgasming after a few minutes of frantic rubbing and moaning. But in reality, those positions aren't necessarily the most conducive to pleasure for women. What might seem hot in a male fantasy — which informs much of the porn we watch — isn't always close to what actually gets women off.