Ultimately, they broke up a few weeks after we talked, which is perhaps unsurprising. Almost all the answers fell into three categories. Most of them were in newer, younger relationships (think five months long and people who are in their twenties).
All of them felt satisfied with the amount of sex they were having, but mentioned that at times, the frequency would wane if things got stressful or busy. The last, and by far the largest group, were people in long term relationships with a primary partner who had sex weekly or once every other week.
She is very sweet and actually takes the time to explain the procedures to me. She is such a sweet and humble doctor. I would recommend her to anyone. Mani is a wonderful doctor.