Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast.
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Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg. Have your partner thrust into you while they kneel and grab your hips so your thighs rest on their lap. Meanwhile, you go to town on your clit with your favorite vibe, for a nearly foolproof way to ensure you get yours too or three times or four. Think regs spoon sex but deeper and hotter by moving the party to the couch and hooking your top leg over the top of the cushions.
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But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous.
If you're having penetrative sex and you're not getting off, you might be wondering what the heck is wrong. And, really, that would be a shame. Especially because it's actually easier to have a clit orgasm than one from penetrative sex alone. And those legs are a great way to have extra stimulation during penetration.